Sex toys

Some dildos are designed to look like dicks, while others have a completely different shape. If you look around the market, you can find toys in every color of the rainbow. Dildos come in a variety of materials that affect how hard or soft they are and how they smell. A dong is usually cock-shaped, made of a slightly softer material and lacks a vibrator function.

Where on your body are you most sensitive? Find a toy that gives you maximum pleasure. Some dildos are shaped or curved to stimulate the most sensitive points. Many also have a built-in vibrator for extra pleasure. Did you know there is a male G-spot? For many men, it is located in the prostate, which is accessed via the anus. A dildo can stimulate the prostate through the ass - and boom, there's your P-spot! The P-spot can be incredibly sensitive and produce powerful orgasms. Similarly, there are dildos (with or without a vibrator) that are specifically designed to stimulate the clitoris and the G-spot in the pussy.

Butt plugs are similar to dildos but are often thicker in the middle and tapered at the ends, allowing the anal muscle to close around them. This often allows the ass to hold the plug on its own. A stopper at the bottom prevents the plug from going all the way in and getting stuck.

Tips

A little lube often makes the experience of a dildo even better, whether you use it in the ass or the pussy. Some dildos and other silicone sex toys should only be used with water-based lube, as silicone-based lube can break down the material.

If several people use the same dildo, swap condoms between users to reduce the risk of transmitting infections. Preferably use condoms without lubricant on the inside, but remember to add lubricant on the outside to make it more comfortable. RFSU has a condom called 17006, which can be ordered online if it is not available in stores. The standard lubricant in packaged condoms is often silicone-based, which can ruin silicone toys. There are other brands too - have fun and try what works best!

If the dildo has a wide base or a shape similar to a scrotum, the risk of it being sucked up the ass is reduced. If a toy gets stuck, squat down and try to push it out, but without using too much force. If you can't get it out yourself, seek medical attention. In the emergency room, they're used to people coming in with things stuck in their bodies - it's no big deal, and they've seen it all. Trust us.

Strap-ons

A strap-on is a dildo that is attached to the body with a harness. Just like dildos, harnesses come in different materials and models. Some are made of rubber and have a built-in dildo, while others - such as two-strap and three-strap models - are usually made of leather or rubber. These have a separate dildo that attaches to the harness. Two-strap and three-strap models usually fit better and last longer than fully molded models.

A strap-on allows you to have your hands free during sex. Many people get aroused wearing one, and some trans men and others say it almost feels like part of their own body. The harness can also provide friction against the body, which can provide nice stimulation, especially if you have a clitoris. Using a vibrator can make the strap-on experience even more pleasurable.

There are also strap-ons that can be worn on the thigh, hand or chin. Some models are hollow and designed for people with dicks who want to vary their size or have difficulty getting or keeping a hard-on. If you already have a cock, you can use a strap-on for double penetration - in the pussy and ass at the same time. Explore and see what suits you and those you have sex with.

cock rings

A cock ring is worn around the cock or cock and scrotum. It can improve blood flow and make erections harder and more sensitive. Many people find cock rings sexy and wear them not only during sex, but also discreetly under their clothes or as an ornament in the shower at the gym.

Cock rings come in many different materials such as silicone, leather and metal. Some have a vibrator for extra stimulation, both for the wearer and the one being fitted. There are also models that go around both the cock and the scrotum or have separate rings for each ball. Be careful with adjustable cock rings not to overtighten and block blood flow. It's also good to release the pressure before ejaculation, as a ring that's too tight can make it painful to come.

Anal beads and geisha beads

Inserting balls one by one can give amazing sensations in both ass and pussy. Many people prefer balls of different sizes that gradually increase in size. Since they are stuck together in a row, it is easy to pull them out again - slowly or quickly, depending on what you like. Anal and vaginal balls come in different materials and work best with lubricants.

Safer sex and toys

Many common STIs can be transmitted through sex toys. Reduce the risk by not sharing toys with others or by washing them thoroughly between uses. Condoms don't just work for dicks - they also fit on many toys and reduce the risk of transmission. If you use a condom on a dildo, choose water-based lube. Grease-based creams (like Vaseline) will ruin most condoms, and silicone-based lube can damage some toys.

Clean your toys regularly to avoid bacterial build-up. Most can be washed with soap and water. Read the instructions on the packaging and avoid getting water in electronic parts. A condom on the dildo makes hygiene even easier and reduces the risk of bacteria from the ass causing vaginal infections. Keep it clean when you want to get really dirty!

In conclusion

There's a whole host of sex toys and aids to help you take your pleasure to the max. It sounds cliché, but really the only limit is your imagination and if you haven't tried anything yet, you have a lot to look forward to. A good place to start might be to check out some shops online or visit a store and ask. The staff are often experts on the subject and there is a lot to learn and many creative solutions to uses for different toys. If you have any questions, you can also write to us on our chat.