Sucking the dick
Whether you're a seasoned cocksucker or a beginner, it's always fun when you can exceed expectations. Make the experience a little more fun for both you and the person you're sucking off by picking up a few simple tips from this cocksucker's guide. Of course, the tips work just as well if the person you want to go down on uses a suction-friendly dildo!
How do I know it will be good?
To make the experience as good as possible, it is important to enjoy what you do. The idea is that it should be a pleasant experience for everyone involved. Therefore, do not do anything that you are not comfortable with. A prerequisite for giving a good blowjob is to be sensitive to words, sounds, breathing and body language that reveal what your partners like best. The person being sucked off can also help make the experience better by being clear about what they like.
Scrotum, thighs and groin
It's easy to focus on the cock during a blowjob but there's more to explore! The scrotum, groin and inner thighs are very sensitive to touch and these areas can be just as pleasurable to lick and caress as the cock itself.
Many people find it helpful if you occasionally take one hand and caress the scrotum and groin, while continuing with the other treatment. The scrotum is sensitive and you may need to be careful here. Licking and sucking on the balls is appreciated by many and should be done with a light suction to avoid discomfort. If you are careful not to overdo it, you can gradually increase the intensity until you find a level that feels good for both of you.
Try working on lips, tongue and caresses. Wander further along the shaft and scrotum or why not further out towards the groin and inner thighs. There are no limits! Many people also appreciate horny looks or that you play with the person's hair, nipples or why not take a firm grip on the neck for a little tougher grip? It is good to remember that how you like to suck or be sucked off differs so be clear about what you like and dare to ask.
Suction
Suction is an important part for many people. Technically, suction is created by pressing your tongue or cock against the roof of your mouth and pushing it backwards. Try sucking on an ice cream or a finger if you're not sure how to do it. Although suction is important, you can only do it for the first few centimeters before your tongue has to settle down to insert your cock deeper. Everyone's tastes are different, so check with your partner how hard they want you to suck.
Variety is good for you
A standard tip when sucking cock is to vary the movements. Try different tempos, take the cock at different depths, lick sometimes with a pointed hard tongue and sometimes with soft lips. Most people with dicks like it when you vary the depth of the blowjob. If you like to take the cock deep but it kind of stops, try sucking the person at different angles. Many people find that you can take it deeper if you are in a 69.
Gagging is a problem for many people, and if you experience it, it can depend on the size of your cock, how deep you suck, and your mood. Remember, it's not a competition to see who can take it the deepest. If you notice that the person giving you a blow job is gagging when you're mouth-fucking them, take it easy and ask how it feels. The gag reflex is nothing to be ashamed of. Some people get turned on by it and it probably makes your partner feel like you're "gagging" because of the size of their dick. If you're worried about gagging, you can counteract it by having the person getting a blow job stay still and the person giving the blow job control the movement.
