Tips on how to lick pussy better
Is it safe to lick pussy?
Make the experience more enjoyable for both you and the person you're licking with this pussy licking guide

Licking pussy

Whether you're a seasoned fittslicker or a beginner, it's always fun when you can exceed expectations. Make the experience a little more enjoyable for both you and the person you're licking by picking up a few simple tips from this fittslicker guide.

How do I know it will be good?

To make the experience as good as possible, it is important to enjoy what you do. The idea is that it should be a pleasant experience for everyone involved. Therefore, do not do anything that you are not comfortable with. A prerequisite for giving a good pussy lick is to be sensitive to words, sounds, breathing and body language that reveal what your partners like best. The person being licked can also help make the experience better by being clear about what they like and want more of.

Words are important when it comes to confirming a person's gender identity, if you are unsure what to call the gender of a transgender person, for example, ask!

Escalation

Sometimes it's right on sexy, hot and spontaneous. Other times, escalation with caressing and anticipation can be one of the most arousing things there is. Try not to go right on. Caress, lick, and bite the person's whole body, traveling down the stomach and inner thighs at regular intervals. Breathe on the pussy occasionally and let the person you're going to lick get so horny that they beg you to go down. Then you can let your tongue land lightly on the clit to wander back over the body. Finally, you can take the whole pussy in your mouth and start licking properly.

Eye contact

Believe it or not, even though you're giving them all your attention, it can get a little lonely up there. Therefore, make sure to throw a horny and longing glance at your partner every now and then. By looking up and focusing on the person you're licking, you can see how much they appreciate what you're doing. Seeing how the other person's body reacts to your caresses is guaranteed to increase the feeling of horniness in the person doing the licking. Being in front of a mirror so that the person you are licking has a good view of what you are doing can further enhance this feeling. Many people who get licked need to feel that the person going down on them is enjoying it in order to relax themselves. Don't skimp on your appreciative glances!

Variety is good for you

Variation in pussy licking can be about trying different positions, tempos and depths. Or why not try sucking, pushing and combining fingers, lips, tongue and teeth in different ways. There can be very different kinds of pleasure depending on the position you lick in.

Popular positions include lying on your back or if the person you're licking is on all fours and you lick them from behind. Also try asking the person to kneel and ride over your face while you lick. If you want to lick/suck at the same time, you can try positions such as the 69 where one person lies over the other in the opposite direction.

Feel free to switch between different tempos when licking and listen to how the person reacts. Or try licking with a soft and light tongue or a hard and pointed tongue. The same goes for the lips where you can vary between nibbling, kissing or just caressing the pussy with your wet lips. You can also create variety by alternating between focusing on the inner and outer labia, the area around the pussy and the clitoris. You can also fuck the vaginal opening with your tongue. Or why not let your tongue wander down your perineum and ass?

While you are licking, you can do many other things with the pussy. You can caress the person's cunt opening and let one or more fingers slide in and fuck the cunt. Many people find it pleasurable to stimulate both the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time. Another option is to fuck the pussy and/or ass with dildos or vibrators. Find out what turns the person you are having sex with on! Dare to ask if you can fuck the person in different ways. Keep in mind that lube can be helpful if you are fucking a person in the ass, lube can also be nice and sometimes necessary if you are fucking the pussy with your fingers or fisting someone. It is good to use a condom if you both use the same dildo.

G-spots

If you have a congenital pussy and are aroused, you can feel the g-spot as a rough area a few centimeters up the front wall of the vagina. The G-spot resembles the surface of a walnut, unlike the rest of the vaginal walls which are soft and smooth. You can easily reach it with your fingers or a dildo. One tip is to insert two fingers and make a "come here" motion towards the navel. At first, you may feel like you need to pee, because the urethra is just above the G-spot. The G-spot is more sensitive to pressure than caresses and many people like to be pushed quite hard, either rhythmically or more constantly. Many people like to insert two fingers so they can press separately in a 'walking' motion, or circulate and rotate at different speeds and directions. Vary the pressure, massage counter-clockwise, clockwise and listen to the person you are massaging so you know what they like best.

Tungan

Did you know that the body's strongest and most mobile muscle is our mouths? The tongue is also naturally soaked in saliva, making it an easy way to provide a pleasant and varied experience. There are many techniques and variations to play with your tongue, so have fun and try it out! Everyone is different and likes different things. Techniques you can try include licking your whole pussy like you're licking a melting ice cream.

Another technique is to put your tongue flat against the area where the clitoris is and push against it. You can press against it and then push your head away a little bit and then return. Then move on to tip your tongue and gently circle the clitoris with varying speed and pressure. Vary by moving your tongue back and forth. While licking the clitoris, you can also pull the clitoral hood back and forth with your fingertips.

Also try gently sucking the clitoris into your mouth and stroking it back and forth with your tongue. Many people like the combination of a slow sucking motion in conjunction with a faster tongue movement. Remember that some people like a little harder touch directly on the clitoral glans with the tongue especially when they are close to cumming, try it out.

clitoris

An important thing to keep in mind when licking pussy is that different people have different clitoral sensitivities; trans girls' created clitoris is often less sensitive than an innate clitoris. Some like hard touches while for others a feather-light touch is enough to stimulate them. For some, it is important to be gentle with the clitoral glans which can be sensitive to direct touch. The clitoral glans alone has between 6000 and 8000 nerve endings, making this the most sensitive place on the body! A simple comparison is that the fingertips have 2000 nerve endings, then it usually becomes clear why it can feel so incredibly much at a light touch on the clitoral glans. If you think it feels too intense or hard to be stimulated directly on the glans, you can try caressing, massaging or being licked around the glans or on the clitoral hood. One tip is to put the clitoral hood between your lips when you lick your pussy. This way, you can use your tongue and lips to move the clitoral hood over the glans and shaft of the clitoris, creating a stimulation that many people find pleasurable. Another technique is to gently suck the clitoris into your mouth and caress it back and forth with your tongue.

Can you use your teeth?

Most people don't appreciate using their teeth when licking their pussy. But teeth don't always have to be a bad thing, for example, try lightly biting the thin skin around the outer pussy lips, groin, mons veneris and thighs when you lick your pussy.

Everyone likes different things

When it comes to hair, smell and taste, everyone likes different things. Some people think hairy pussies are the hottest thing while others prefer shaved skin. Keep in mind that freshly shaved skin contains many small wounds where viruses and bacteria are more easily transmitted. Many people also like the smell and taste of pussy, while others like to use lubricants of different smells and tastes when licking pussy. Lubricants are also good for making the pussy wetter or if you want to give the person a nice experience by just using your hands. Having your pussy massaged with your hands is appreciated by many. If you want inspiration on how to massage the pussy, there are books and movies that describe two massage techniques called Yoni & Lingam massage.

climax

When the person you're licking is close to cumming, a little harder stimulation may be needed. You can do this by flicking your tongue and making it harder. When you notice that it is building up to an orgasm, you can continue at the pace you have been doing and increase the pressure slightly. You can often tell if the person is enjoying what you are doing. This is usually not the right time to pause or take a break to tease a little. Don't stop the stimulation when the person comes, but continue until they ask you to stop.

Is it safe to lick pussy?

Licking pussy is a form of safer sex. The STDs that can be transmitted are mainly the HPV virus and herpes. These diseases are very easily transmitted and many people already carry these viruses. HPV viruses can result in cell changes that can eventually lead to cervical cancer. The best way to prevent this is to go for regular cervical smear tests when you are called.

If a person has visible sores or blisters, our advice is to avoid oral sex, as this may be herpes, which has a higher risk of transmission in blisters. Research shows that HIV generally cannot be transmitted by licking the pussy, the only exception is if the person being licked has menstruation and untreated HIV, then there may be a small risk of transmission. Gonorrhea and syphilis can be transmitted through oral sex but are relatively rare in women. Chlamydia is rarely transmitted during oral sex when licking the pussy. However, the possibility of transmission is greater during penetrative sex, so we recommend condoms when sharing dildos or penetrative sex with a cock.

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