Herpes

Herpes is a common and stubborn viral infection that thrives in mucous membranes and skin. There are two main types of herpes simplex virus: HSV-1 and HSV-2. HSV-1 is the type that most commonly causes cold sores, but it can also spread to the genitals through oral sex. HSV-2 is the variant most commonly associated with genital herpes, but it can also appear around the mouth. It's super easy to get herpes, whether it's making out, sucking cock, licking pussy, fucking ass, or sharing sex toys without cleaning them properly. The majority of people in Sweden carry the herpes virus, many without knowing it. It is likely that most people are exposed to the virus during their first year of life. 

Herpes is most easily transmitted when you have blisters, but the virus can also spread even when you have no symptoms.

Symptoms

Herpes can appear as small, irritating blisters on or around your cock, pussy, ass or mouth. They can be itchy, burning and painful, especially the first time they appear. Later outbreaks are often milder and shorter. But you can also carry the virus without knowing it - many people don't even realize they have it. If symptoms occur, they can be:

• Small, fluid-filled blisters on or around the genitals, anus or mouth.
• Itching or tingling of the skin before the blisters appear.
• Pain or discomfort when urinating if the bladder is close to the urethra.
• Tenderness and swelling of the lymph nodes in the groin during the first outbreak.
• Fever and general malaise, especially in the first outbreak.

Testing

Getting tested for herpes is a little different from other STIs and is not usually something you do unless you have a lot of problems. It usually requires a sample from the bladder itself to be able to say for sure if it is herpes. If you think you have herpes, go to a clinic when the symptoms are active. And remember - it's nothing to be ashamed of. Clinic staff are used to everything and anything, so be honest about where and how you've had sex.

Treatment

Herpes is a lifelong partner that likes to come and go as it pleases, so it cannot be cured. But if you experience more severe symptoms, there are antiviral drugs that can help shorten and mitigate outbreaks. It is important to avoid sex when you have active blisters, so as not to spread the virus further. 

How to protect yourself

Want to keep herpes at bay? Condoms and lollipops are your best allies, especially if you have multiple partners. Here are some hot tips for safer sex:

• Use condoms for all kinds of sex - yes, even when playing with sex toys.
• Do not share sex toys without cleaning them properly first.
• Talk openly with your partners about herpes and other STIs - it's important to be honest and responsible.
• Take a break from sex when you have blisters or symptoms to reduce the risk of passing on herpes.

Remember: safer sex is all about giving yourself and your partners the opportunity to enjoy yourself to the maximum, without worrying.