Erogenous zones
When we talk about sex, many people often think of the cock, the pussy and the ass as being obvious for pleasure. But in fact, the whole body can be an erotic landscape to explore! Touch, looks and fantasies can turn the most unexpected places into hot zones.
The sensitivity of certain parts of the body depends on the number of sensory organs, but also on the situation, the imagination and our own arousal. The sensation arises in the skin, but it is the brain that determines whether there is a sexual kick. A finger is full of nerve endings, but it doesn't automatically become sexy until the right person caresses it in the right way, at the right time.
Exploring and communicating
There is no manual for what mustfeel good. Your favorite spot might be completely uninteresting to someone else. That's why it's worth curiously exploring both your own body and your partner's. Why not have a nice masturbation session focusing on the whole body and not just the sex. Vary the pressure, pace and technique - use hands, mouth, tongue, hair, beard, or play with feathers, oils, lubricants, ice cubes or melted candle wax.
Don't forget to communicate, a moan, a deep sigh, a "yes" or "more", are all signals that it feels right. Listening and giving feedback, with words or body language, makes exploring even more fun and enjoyable.
Beautiful areas to explore
- Scalp - gently caress, massage or pull the hair.
- The ears - lightly suck on your earlobe, pant or play with your tongue.
- Lips - kisses, kisses, tongue play or little nibbles.
- Neck and throat - caress, massage, kiss or bite lightly.
- Hands and fingers - suck, lick or give a nice massage.
- Breasts and nipples - sensitive in many; try light caressing, sucking or harder gripping.
- Sides of the upper body and armpits - can be ticklish and pleasant to the lightest touch.
- Inner thighs and groin - very sensitive areas near the sex and perfect when you want to build arousal
- Feet - everything from massages and tickling to licking and sucking can provoke strong reactions.
Remember: your body is full of beautiful areas, some obvious, some unexpected. Give yourself or your partner time to discover them. Pleasure can be found right where you least expect it.
Tips
Want to challenge yourself a little extra? We're so used to going straight for the sex and safe places we know we like. Instead, try having sex without touching the genitals or anal area. Who knows, you might find a whole new set of pleasurable areas on your body that can bring both pleasure and orgasm?
