anal sex
Many people find anal sex to be the most pleasurable thing there is, while others prefer to avoid it
The person who puts it on is usually called top or active and the person who gets put on is usually called bottom or passive. Some are just top or bottom. While others change depending on their mood or the chemistry that occurs during sex, often called versatile or changeable. Here you can read a little about how to have more comfortable and safer anal sex. Consider what we write as tips rather than the truth. Pleasure is very individual and we all like different things.
Feel comfortable
Feeling fulfilled by a cock or dildo is something many people enjoy. Exactly how you have anal sex is up to you. Maybe you or the person you're having sex with wants to lie on their stomach with their face in the pillow, or the person being fucked can take charge by riding and thus have better control. Keep in mind that trying to get in as deep as possible does not necessarily mean that it feels better.
Take your time
It's not always possible to just push a cock or dildo into an ass. Try to start gently with fingers, tongue or maybe a butt plug. The inner sphincter of the anal opening is not controllable and often squeezes a little when something is inserted. Try pressing a finger against the opening until you feel the muscle relax. This usually takes no more than a few seconds. Since the anal area lacks natural lubrication, this can be a good time to use plenty of water or silicone-based lubricant. Remember to communicate with the person you are fucking. This doesn't mean you have to talk your way through the sex - but listen for excited moans or signals that it's not comfortable. Some people prefer soft, slow movements while others go for it hard and deep. The important thing is that you are in agreement and enjoying it.
Scaffolding
Different positions give different effects and enjoyment. Therefore, choose positions based on what you want to achieve. If you like long sessions, you should probably choose positions that give you power without tiring you out too quickly. Nice advanced positions rarely last more than a few minutes. Sex should be enjoyable and not a competition to fuck the best. If one of you is a beginner in the field, it may be an idea to let that person's needs guide you a little. Try your hand at it, maybe a side entry will be easiest? Or try it on your back with a pillow under your butt, doggy, face to face... Some positions that look cool in movies may be hopeless in real life and often we marvel at how long people can go on for. Remember, a porn movie scene can take a whole day to shoot. So don't panic if you can't have anal sex uninterrupted for several hours.
